'We won't go quietly': Newcastle crowds rally against gender-based violence

The rallies, which are being held in cities across Australia, come after a horrific start to 2024 for women, with 26 women allegedly dying by violence so far this year, according to Destroy the Joint figures, which equates to a woman killed every four days.

Friday night's rally began outside the Newcastle Museum at 6pm, and marched to Foreshore Park.

Crowds called for action on gender-based violence.

"One, two, three, four, we won't take it anymore. Five, six, seven, eight, no more violence, no more hate," they chanted.

"We won't go quietly, we we won't be silent, we say no to domestic violence."

With impassioned pleas, rally attendees held signs that said, "enough is enough", "stop killing us', and "not all men but all women".

A message from Newcastle MP Sharon Claydon told the crowd to stand in solidarity to say "enough is enough".

"Women everywhere are fed up, frustrated, sickened and angered by the ongoing crisis of male violence against women and children in Australia," MP Claydon's speech said.

"Together we can, and must, put an end to gender-based violence in our homes, our workplaces, and our communities."

As Maitland woman Ange McArthur began to unpack years of trauma, she was angry and tired.

Angry at the sexual violence she experienced since she was four years old.

Angry that she struggles to name a person assigned female at birth in her life that has not been assaulted or abused.

And tired that victim-survivors still have to explain and justify themselves.

"The words we say are still not enough, we are tired, no more," she said.

'No More' is the core theme of the non-profit What Were You Wearing national rallies against violence, which are being held from April 26 to April 28.

Ms McArthur spoke at Newcastle's rally on Friday.

Rallies are also organised Ballarat, Sydney, Adelaide, Melbourne, Perth, Bendigo, Sunshine Coast, Geelong, Brisbane, Coffs Harbour, and Canberra, Hobart, Gold Coast, Wagga Wagga, Orange, Cobram.

The group is calling for urgent action against gender-based violence and sexual, family and domestic violence in Australia.

Ms McArthur, a support coordinator, wanted to use her voice in a way that benefits future generations.

"As I get older I realise I was conditioned from such a young age, I'm also realising how easy it is to educate our little people on what's wrong and right," she said.

From a young age into adulthood, she experienced abuse, sexual violence and coercion. She wished more people listened to survivors' stories.

"Just because we are speaking up now doesn't mean it never happened, the reason it can take long is because of fear," she said.

"It's reached this point where we have to sort of be infantilizing, and just say 'hands to yourself, cut it out', it's just ridiculous."

She first attended What Were You Wearing survivor groups last year and was motivated to get involved in the rally to change the narrative around sexual assault.

"If you are not sitting, listening and considering what we are saying, then you are a part of the problem," she said.

What Were You Wearing founder Sarah Williams said the Bondi stabbing which killed six people and "alarming" rates of domestic, family and sexual violence triggered the rallies.

"There is a wider issue of violence towards women," she said.

"So many people are just fed up with it every year, it's the same story and same lack of action from the government and local councils."

Data from the Australian Bureau of Statistics in 2021-22 revealed one in five Australian women experienced sexual violence.

What Were You Wearing chief financial officer Ethan Fraser said the rally reflected the ongoing frustration on lack of action.

He said the rally aimed to call attention to a multitude of gender-based violence, including men's violence towards other men.

"The more noise we make, the more chance we have of change," he said.

What Were You Wearing demands on gender-based violence include:

To find out more information, go to https://www.whatwereyouwearingaus.org/national-rally